Herefordshire pathways

What to do if someone tells you they have been sexually assaulted

Check are they safe - If they are in immediate dangercall 999

Here are some steps you can take:

1. Listen and Believe: Listen attentively without judgment. Believe their account survivors often fear not being believed, so your support matters.
2. Safety and Consent: Ensure their safety. If the assault is recent, encourage them to seek medical attention.
3. Medical Attention: The police will organise appropriate medical examinations for children under the age of 14. SARCs provide medical, emotional, and practical support for survivors. Find rape and sexual assault referral centres - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
4. Preserve Evidence: Encourage them to preserve evidence (clothing, messages, etc.) without washing or changing. Explain that this can be crucial for investigations.
5. Support Networks: Help them connect with support networks.  Speak to a teacher, school nurse, designated safeguarding lead or other trusted adult.

   Our Services - WMRSASC have specialist advisors who can discuss options with them and will be able to offer appropriate practical and emotional support tailored to their circumstances. Contacting Childline | Childline is open 24 hours 7 days a week, when you call them on 0800 1111 you will get through to a counsellor or you can have a 1-2-1 counsellor chat